Colleen Mary Ellingson (née McCabe), 78, passed away on July 22, 2025. She was born on October 2, 1946, in Sheboygan, Wisconsin, and spent most of her adult life in Milwaukee.
In 2015, Colleen and her husband Ed retired and moved to Estes Park. Colleen lived a life marked by compassion, dedication, and an unwavering commitment to the well-being of others.
A proud graduate of the University of Wisconsin–Madison with a degree in Social Work, Colleen devoted her professional life to supporting children and families. As Executive Director of the Coalition for Children, Youth and Families—Wisconsin’s largest support network and resource center for adoptive and foster care families—she worked tirelessly to improve lives across the state.
Under her leadership, the Coalition became a vital force in shaping statewide legislative policy regarding adoption and foster care, including early advocacy to legalize adoption for LGBTQ parents. Her efforts helped forge thousands of new families and created a legacy that will continue to impact generations to come.
Colleen’s passion for helping others was matched by her zest for life. She was a vibrant and supportive presence who loved celebrating life’s moments, big or small. Her creativity was expressed through many artistic pursuits over the years. She cherished time canoeing and camping along the Wisconsin River, where nature provided inspiration and peace.
A gifted cook known for preparing elaborate and delicious meals, especially alongside her son-in-law, Dean, Colleen brought warmth and joy to every gathering. Colleen hosted Andy and Kate’s Milwaukee wedding reception, and while her daughter Sarah spent the day preparing Matambre (flank steak rolled and stuffed with secret ingredients) along with many other delicious dishes for over 100 people, Sarah told Colleen this would definitely be in her obituary someday.
She also deeply loved family adventures, travel, home renovation projects with Ed, and lifelong learning. Whether fixing up houses or exploring new places, Colleen approached each endeavor with enthusiasm and curiosity.
Colleen is survived by her husband Edward Ellingson; her son Andrew Ellingson Kand his wife Kate of Scotland; her daughter Sarah Rhode and son in law Dean of Estes Park; and her cherished grandsons Atlas Rhode, Odin Rhode, and Adler Ellingson. She is also survived by her brother Mark McCabe, sister-in-law Jane, and niece Kristen. Colleen shared a particularly close bond with her mother, Helen McCabe, who preceded her in death in 1982.
Colleen encouraged, supported, and celebrated family and friends. Colleen was very proud of her children and grandchildren.
Memorial services celebrating Colleen’s life will be arranged in Estes Park and Milwaukee pending family travel arrangements.
Colleen’s legacy lives on in the countless lives she touched through her work, family, and enduring spirit. May her memory bring comfort to those who knew and loved her.
Please make memorial donations to the Coalition for Children, Youth, and Families.
Allnutt Funeral Service of Estes Park is honored to walk alongside this family. Please visit Allnutt’s to leave messages for the family.